Friday, October 14, 2016

Episode 104: Inciting A Fluffy Riot (and a day at Chicago Pagan Pride)

Episode 104 of Inciting A Riot Podcast is a day at Chicago Pagan Pride 2016. 

I also spend the episode meditating on our community, and specifically the term Fluffy Bunny.

Special thanks to Twila York, Michael Greywolf, Mike Indovina, Cheshire Moon, Selena Fox, Veronica Daylight, Vinna Harper, Katrina Ray-Saulis, Jay, and Greenwolf for sharing your thoughts with me and the Riot audience. 

Sunday, August 28, 2016

What can I do to change? (Gary from C-Span is 2016)

There is a story this week you have likely not heard about unless you're a political news junkie and your drugs are NPR and C-Span. It began with these words:
I am a white male, and I am prejudiced.
It's a conversation starter that immediately sends up innumerable reactionary responses. Defensive retorts from the right, jaded hissing from the left. It's a conversation some of us have had before. I'm grateful that my first conversation about my own prejudices did not happen in public, but I'm glad I've had public conversations about prejudice.

What followed after the above statement, said by a guy calling in to C-Span and identifying himself as Gary, was a pause and then a brilliant response from a woman named Heather McGhee. She discussed the disproportionate coverage of minority crimes in the media. She discussed systemic, endemic, unconscious bias. She thanked him for admitting he knew he was prejudiced - because, these days, many don't see themselves as prejudiced; they see themselves as "truth tellers".

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

We need to talk about Asatru

For years now - longer than I have called myself Pagan - there have been a few issues that rise and fall as assuredly as our seasons. There's the "Silver Ravenwolf is a terrible author" thing and the "Is a wand/athame associated with fire/air" thing and the "What does 'Pagan' mean" thing and so on. These topics come up, get everyone all hot and bothered for a bit, and then disappear waiting to go unsolved another day. There are a few topics, though, that don't come up very often because they're less fun to debate online. Things like consent and sex and homophobia and racism. One of those topics is back, and it's time we stopped avoiding it. 

There is an uncomfortable correlate between Asatru and racism, homophobia, and xenophobia.

Sunday, August 21, 2016

Episode 103: Inciting An Unforgiving Riot

Episode 103 finds us Inciting An Unforgiving Riot. I throw it back to a discussion from 2012 regarding forgiveness and discuss not only my personal issues surrounding the cultural notion and impetus to forgive, but whether forgiveness should be the final result in all situations.

News: Private Prisons

Word of the Day: imprecation

Sociology: Safe Space

Poetry: While I wait to be a god again

Spirituality: Unforgiveness  

Feedback: War Room

More information about Chicago's Pagan Pride can be found at!

Big thanks to Nicole Youngman for reaching out and being a resource. To learn more about how YOU can help the victims of the recent flooding, please visit Together Baton Rouge:

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte

@IncitingARiot on Twitter

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Monday, August 15, 2016

Not Your Safe Space

Right now the Olympic games are happening in Brazil, and they're all anyone can talk about. Michael Phelps has now earned enough gold medals that I think he gets one free. Simone Biles is absolutely everything. So many stories have come from the games. Alongside the usual emotionally stirring tales of personal triumph have been headlines causing stomachs to turn all across the globe. From the sexism to the racism to the poverty porn, there's been almost as much to denigrate as to celebrate about these games. However, one conversation that sparked this past week has really grabbed at my core.

Gay Safe Spaces

This all started with an article from The Daily Beast that I cannot even link to because The Daily Beast took it down. However, I'll link to an article from Slate discussing the article from The Daily Beast, because it does a pretty decent job of telling you what the article said and why it is problematic. Here's a quick summary of the facts, quoting from the Slate article:

On Thursday morning, the Daily Beast published an exceedingly gross and bizarre article by a straight, married male writer who lured in gay Olympians through hookup apps for no particular purpose. The entire piece is an astoundingly creepy exercise in Grindr-baiting, which involves a journalist accessing Grindr in an unlikely setting and … seeing what happens. But the Daily Beast piece, penned by Nico Hines, is a uniquely disgusting and irresponsible entry into the tired genre. Hines entices his (often closeted) subjects under false pretenses; effectively outs several closeted athletes who live in repressive countries; then writes about the whole thing in a tone of mocking yet lurid condescension.
Cutting to the chase, this article has set off an astonishing level of conversation on the topic of straight people's desire to treat the LGBT community as some kind of zoo.

The Gay Zoo

Thursday, August 4, 2016

A Dysmorphic's Guide to Exercise

This is mostly sculpted from digital clay. Seriously. I do not look like this.
Many of you that follow me on social media know by now my love of the medium. I share thoughts, recipes, altar snapshots, selfies, political feedback, news, selfies, current events, Pokemon GO challenges, selfies, the last year...I've started to share a lot more about my healthy habits.

Via selfies.

It was all going fine until folks started telling me these dreaded words: "You inspire me."

Saturday, July 30, 2016

The Problematic Non-Coming Out of Tyler Posey

Meet Tyler Posey.

You may know his face from one of two places:

  1. You're the world's biggest fan of the movie Maid in Manhattan where he plays Jennifer Lopez's son. 
  2. You are a teenager with access to MTV and a love of seeing sculpted young hunks get all homoerotic on screen. 
He's the star of the MTV revival of Teen Wolf, which has become famous for...well... 

The cast is notoriously young muscular and spends more time shirtless, sweaty, and finding new ways to turn everyday actions into flexing opportunities than Taylor Lautner trying to keep his job in Twilight. 

The show has a history of cultivating and advocating LGBTQ+ inclusive storylines, and, thus, has earned itself quite the LGBTQ+ following. 

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Episode 102: Inciting A Brexit Riot

Episode 102 finds us Inciting A Brexit Riot. I spend 90 minutes discussing what led up to the recent decision by the UK to leave the European Union, how it happened, and what the future holds for the UK and around the world. 

Please forgive some of the audio quality. It's obvious that Skype voted Leave and didn't want us to have a clear connection. 

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte
@IncitingARiot on Twitter
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Monday, June 13, 2016

night in their world (and thoughts on Orlando)

The incomprehensible tragedy in Orlando is still very fresh. People don’t know how to feel, or how to express what they are able to feel. Do you express hope for the future? Lament the past? Sit in the moment? Qualifying one of the worst mass tragedies in modern memory is impossible. At least…for me. 
I actually started receiving text messages and emails of solidarity from friends and allies long before I heard the news about Orlando first hand. And of all the messages and voices and memes and social media posts I’ve seen, one message rang the most true. It went something like: If you don’t understand how a club can be a sanctuary, you’ve probably never been afraid of holding someone’s hand in public. 
And that brought to mind a poem I wrote my freshman year of college. It’s included in my book, The Playground. It came about after I was physically reminded that I am not – or was not – allowed to exist in all spaces. I was not welcome, and my mere presence was seen as come kind of threat. 
And it is in that space where I am beginning to process the fact that in 2016, in our own places of sanctuary, we are just as vulnerable and just as endangered as ever. These spaces are just as important as ever. And when you hear your LGBT friends or family complaining about an influx of bachelorette parties or a heterosexual gentrification of our neighborhoods, bars, and clubs…it’s because we still need space. Not to pick up a one night stand, or to get drunk, or to dance half naked to an electronic beat…or to do all those things…or none of those things…or whatever we want to do in a space that is ours. A space that isn’t yours. A space that isn’t just a fun night out with the girls to look at the pretty dancing boys. 
And…it’s ok that it’s our space still. It’s ok that you are going to be a visitor in that space. You don’t need to complain about it or wonder about it. If you question why we feel that way, look at Orlando. Look at Pride. Look at why we need a space where we feel protected in the arms and dance floor of sanctuary.
night in their world
never tasted brick before
I was shoved into it
and forced
to walk into the rain.
I know this happens
I know that simply being alive
provokes the tipped words to fly
but there was a moment
when all I did
was stare at this guy
the one on the dance floor
who, with the slightest misstep,
would have become the
last part of the phrase
State of West Virginia v. __________
I always thought that if such a situation
were to arise
that my anger would take over
as though I were some comic book hero
and I would not be the kid that “this” happened to.
I wondered all this
as I left
drove a few blocks
and sat on the cheap barstool
swiveled around
looking at the walls I was allowed to thrive in.
Love and Lyte,
Fire Lyte

Friday, June 3, 2016

I am not your story.

About two months ago, there was a meme going around Facebook telling users that they all had a secret message inbox of which they were probably not aware. I followed the steps. I found that I, indeed, had many years' worth of backlogged, unanswered messages both as Fire Lyte and in my mundane life. It is a message in my mundane inbox that has been festering at the back of my brain since I received it. A message that immediately made me curse at my computer screen. A message that has thrown me, at speed and with force, around the spectrum of wanting to be seen as a quintessentially good person and wanting to be selfish. A message...of apology.

Saturday, April 30, 2016

Episode 101: Inciting David Salisbury's Riot

Episode 101 finds us inciting David Salisbury's riot! David is a pagan author and civil rights activist, and I was so honored to speak with him on a range of topics in and out of the pagan community.

His new book, A Mystic Guide to Cleansing and Clearing, will be available later this year.

You can also find David this July at Temple Fest.

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte

@IncitingARiot on Twitter
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Sunday, April 10, 2016

The Great Debate: Representation of Witches and Pagans in Media

What follows is an opinion piece I did for episode 100 of my podcast. It should be noted, there are no sources cited nor studies quoted. I did not do any kind of polling, in depth academic research, or anything resembling something fit for peer review. These are simply my views in regards to the ongoing, unceasing, perennial conversation on the representation of witches and pagans in the media. 

Your mileage can, and should, vary, but I hope this at least inspires a conversation. 

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte

Sunday, April 3, 2016

Episode 100: Inciting A Disambiguated Riot

Episode 100 - Inciting A Disambiguated Riot

News: Obama bans solitary confinement for juveniles, WV & Mississippi allowing guns without permits,  Religious Freedom bills in NC, Missippi, and Georgia; Justice Scalia died, Siri gets a little more compassionate

WOTD: alacrity

Sociology: FBI v Apple

Poetry: denouement 

Spirituality: Witchy Disambiguation 

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte

@IncitingARiot on Twitter

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Monday, January 18, 2016

A Note about Facebook

Attention All Rioters!

I get it.

You're concerned.

You've not seen me on Facebook in a week or so.

To allay any fears, let me answer your questions here:






OK I don't think that last one needed to be said, but just in case you were wondering.

Folks, the Real Name Police on Facebook finally caught up with me. I'm attempting to get the situation rectified, if for nothing else than maintaining control of the Riot's official Facebook page. 

Many of you have emailed, tweeted, sent smoke signals, and otherwise communicated with me at your VERY SERIOUS ALARM that I've not been on Facebook. (I won't pretend there isn't both a social commentary and a lesson on how much time I should be spending on social media somewhere in all this.) 

For the time being, you can keep up with me on Twitter, here on the blog, or through my artistic endeavors in my various Torch & Paintbrush presences. 

Thank you all for your concern. I'm not dead.

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte

Sunday, January 10, 2016

Episode 99: Inciting A Parental Riot

Episode 99 of Inciting A Riot: the Podcast brings us another roundtable discussion. Today's topic? 


Special thanks to our parents - Marie, Rommy, and Ross (of Oh No! Ross & Carrie)

News: North Korea H-Bomb, Obama gun control, Alabama attempts to ban gay marriage, Armaan Singh Sarai, Knightscope K5 security bot

WOTD: singular ‘they’

Sociology: #OregonUnderAttack

Also, a special thanks to Cory of New World Witchery and Greywolf Moonsong for helping make today's sociology segment a sordid affair. 

Episode 100 is right around the corner! Send in your favorite moments from the last 99 episodes! You can submit an audio comment as well! 

Love and Lyte,

Fire Lyte

@IncitingARiot on Twitter
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